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One of the greatest sources of stress we experience in dispatch is from our own co-workers. Essentially
I have identified five types of "characters" that may be
appearing in a dispatch near you that can
make your day more stressful.
Character Number One: The Chatter.
The Chatter loves to create a distraction
by engaging in chit-chat or idle banter just at the wrong or
most busiest times. Like when you're trying to enter a vehicle
into the teletype. The Chatter goes on and on about this and
that. The problem of course is that you're busy trying to concentrate
on getting the entry in correctly so that you don't make a mistake.
The Chatter cares not. They chat away seemingly on auto pilot,
"Yak, yak, yak..."
Character Number Two: The Gossiper.
You've got to love this character. Whatever
news is fit to spout they'll make sure they get it out. The real
problem is when they are need or new or fresh material. So, they
engage you in a "trustful" and "heart-felt"
conversation in order to get you to divulge the latest news headline
- about yourself.
Character Number Three - The Open Book.
This character likes to lay their entire soul
open to you - or anybody - that will listen. They like to share
everything from their fight last night with their spouse to the
fact that they are constipated. Nothing is closed or "verboten"
about their life, giving you more information than you could
possibly want to know.
Character Number Four - The Idea Thief
You have a great idea to streamline dispatch
operations. The idea thief takes note of your idea and tells
the boss about it. The boss is thrilled about the suggestion.
That's great, except that the idea thief forgot to mention it
was YOUR idea first. Thus, they get all the credit. The idea
thief is all about getting to the top using the ladder of your
(or anyone else's) ideas!
Character Number Five - The Spy
The Spy's method of operation is to collect
data - on YOU! Or anybody else. This is the employee that walks
so close behind the supervisor that if they were to stop short
abruptly, the Spy's nose would end up "you know where".
The Spy is especially disconcerting. If you work with one you
can never let your guard down, never divulge your feelings, or
ideas. You have to watch everything you say.
So what do you do with the cast of characters?
Counteracting the Chatter.
Short of telling them to "shut up",
simply ask them to tell you about it later, and keep on working.
Better yet, be inventive. Hand them some of the work, that will
keep them busy.
Counteracting The Gossiper.
No nice way about this one. The minute you
see them gossiping, or especially when the topic is you, confront
them about it. Nothing shuts up a gossiper more than confrontation.
Their life-blood is a willing audience. Don't be willing.
Counteracting the Open Book.
Again, direct confrontation. Explain that
you are not trying to be rude, but you prefer not to know. Careful
on this one though. Someone may be in a real hurt and just trying
to reach out. We all get that way sometimes. Don't shut off someone
who may be on their last gasp. But the open book person is usually
easily recognizable.
Counteracting the Idea thief.
Got an idea? The best way to promote it is
keep it to yourself until the time to present it. Don't broadcast
your "portfolio" to the masses, many have pen and paper
handy.
Counteracting the Spy.
A little "group" correction can
go a long way on this one. Actually many good supervisors don't
condone this type of "ratting" on your fellow dispatchers.
The best way to stop them in their tracks is to, expose them.
First to their face, then if the behavior doesn't stop go to
the supervisor. Tell them there is only ONE person who evaluates
your performance - your supervisor.
There are "characters" in all walks of life. In fact,
maybe you might have seen yourself in one of these
characterizations. In any case confronting or avoiding the behavior
of "characters" may lessen the impact they can have
on you in the workplace
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