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1. You must be loved always by those significant to
you.
2. You must prove yourself competent, adequate,
achieving or at least talented in something.
3. Things must always go your way.
4. Those who fail must be punished. If people act
unfairly or unethically they amount to rotten people who deserve damnation
and punishment.
5. When dangerous or fearsome things exist in your
world you must continually preoccupy yourself with, or get upset with
them.
6. People and things should turn out better than
they do and you have to view it as horrible or unacceptable if you don’t
find solutions to life’s problems.
7. The reason you are anxious comes from external
sources (people, places and things), and unless they change you cannot
help yourself.
8. You avoid responsibility to avoid pain. You
would rather forgo present pain and suffering and inconvenience than to
choose a path to grow.
9. Your past affects your present and future. Your
past so strongly affected you then, that it must and does determine your
feelings today.
10. You can achieve happiness by inertia and inaction or by
passively and uncommittedly enjoying yourself.
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